It's always about a girl

            What many people do not realize is that, whenever a guy does something, he's always thinking about a girl. Whether or not this influences his decision all the time is debatable but, generally speaking, if a guy is doing something he normally would not do, you can feel safe betting on his motives.  Cleaning his room? Open dorms are coming up. Cologne? He is meeting is hopeful sweetie soon. Wary about who sees what he is writing in his notebook? Someone is getting a sappy note. While these are fairly obvious to most people, it's the discreet hints that people (girls in particular) need to learn to pick up on.
            More than half of all males profess to be bad at flirting but, in reality, it's more than half of females are bad at reading guys attempts at flirting. Girls are almost always the ones complaining that guys don't communicate with them when the truth is that they just don't understand what they are saying. It's not something that can be learned or even changed overnight, but picking up on the little things is what everyone needs to start doing. Whether it be in flirting or apologizing, we all need to start listening.